Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Advent Calendar & Activities


During Advent my husband and I try to teach our girls the spirit of giving.  We want to help our girls learn there's more to Christmas than just getting gifts.  We take this time to point back to Jesus as much as we can.  However, with Christmas, and the world view of Christmas that isn't always easy.  Everywhere you turn during this season there are ads and conversations about what you want for Christmas.  So, during our Advent activities we try to steer towards giving and family activities along with ways to help our daughters learn the joy of helping and giving back to others.

I posted on my Instagram just a few activities that we do during Advent.  In this post, I'll share most of what we do and how we don't spend a lot in the process.  Because what we also want to teach our children is that even if we are on a budget we can still enjoy Christmas and all that goes with it.

Advent Calendar

I've done different Advent calendars over the years and now that we've added kiddos I'm always looking for the simplest, yet stylish way to do the Advent calendar.  I like to make things fun and cute while saving money too!

As I said on my IG post, I've used this same layout for the last three years, but have just changed how I use it each year.  Last year, I put the papers in a mason jar and the girls took turns taking out each day's activities.  You can find last year's Christmas post here.

This year, I took 20 envelopes (Our Christmas will be on the 21st), and then added the small paper in the envelope along with some stickers for each girl.  The girls have been taking turns "opening" the envelopes and reading the activity for the day, plus playing with their stickers.

Now, first of all I say "opening", because I didn't seal the envelope.  I plan to re-use these next year, or for something else.  So I just wrote on the front in pencil and then tucked the envelope in, instead of sealing it.

Second, the stickers came from a couple of sticker pads and I cut out about 3-5 per girl.  This way I can make the sticker book last the whole month of December and still have some stickers for them afterwards to add to their craft corner.  I'm not a big fan of chocolate everyday, but on the days where they get to pick a Christmas movie they get a piece of candy or two. 

So, all in all I spent a total of $5.00 for the Advent calendar & little treats.  I bought three small sticker books (just because I wanted different types of stickers) & the candy was leftover from another time.  $5.00 for three girls!  I was just at Walmart and a Advent candy calendar cost about $6.00, times that by 3 and I would have spent close to $20 for just Advent, and that's just for the calendar!

Advent Activities 

So now that you haven't spent a ton on the Advent calendar, you have a little more to be able to give. 
See how that works?

That's what we strive to teach our daughters, not just during the Advent season, but all year long.  However, this is a great time to teach it even more.

1. Cookies for Neighbors: 

One of my favorite Advent activities we do is making cookies for our neighbors.  I'm not sure exactly when I started this, but it's something I look forward to each Christmas.  We have 3 different cookies that we make; sugar, peanut butter kisses, and no bake cookies.  This helps to know what special ingredients we'll need and as the season gets closer I can stock up as the ingredients go on sale.  The girls enjoy baking cookies and helping to cut out the different sugar cookies into fun Christmas shapes.  They like delivering them to the neighbors when we're all done and telling them Merry Christmas.  It's a fun way to help them enjoy giving to someone.
Currently, we have 5 neighbors and it just so happens we have 5 people in our family.  My mother-in-law gives us Advent treats in fun Christmas canisters each year.  Can you guess what I do with them?  Yep! I reuse them and gift them to my neighbors full of cookies!  So this activity only costs me the ingredients to make cookies, which really isn't a lot when you use flour, sugar, butter and such for other cooking in your house.  But, I didn't always get 5 canisters from my mother-in-law, before my other two were born we only got 3.  So at the end of Christmas I would buy Christmas canisters at 50-75% off and save for next year.  So, as your reading this, make a note to add to your after Christmas sale shopping, Christmas canisters to save for your advent gifts next year. :)

Here's one of the tin canisters we re-used for our neighbors this year.  Plus a cute little craft we made, my daughter came up with most of this on her own!  Simple crafts work for Advent activities too! 

2. Treats for teachers: 

Another way we like to show our giving is to have our girls make treats for their teachers.  School teachers, (don't forget the Art, Music, PE, Library, Guidance, & Office), Sunday school teachers, Nursery and any other teachers they, piano...etc.  WHOA, you may say that's a lot! I thought you were talking about saving not spending.  Yes, that is a lot.  But those, teachers...oh and bus drivers..are important!  And helping your child make treats for them to show how thankful they are is important too.  Again, these treats do NOT have to cost much.  This year, spoiler to any of my daughters' teachers who may read this, we are making popcorn.  Homemade popcorn with some fun candy thrown in it is super affordable and easy to make.  Want to know how to make affordable homemade popcorn?  You can find that here.

3. Christmas Advent wreath

A simple activity is to celebrate the Advent wreath.  We usually do this as our first activity depending on when the first Sunday lies on the calendar.  It's a great way to gather the family and talk about the true reason we celebrate Christmas.  And it's so simple.  If you've never done one and want to here's a link to some advent candles.  We have been using ours for at least 8-9 years!  Then I just wrap some fun garland around it.  This year I even added some pretty gold beading we've had lying around. 

4. Christmas countdown

One of the other activities we do during the beginning of the season is our Christmas countdown.  You can get a lot of strips out of one piece of construction paper.  We made three this year and I used a total of 9 sheets of construction paper.

5. Christmas coloring pages

You can get so many Christmas coloring pages online.  Or, you can buy a Christmas coloring book and tear out pages for your kiddos to color.  I usually do just a few pages each and that seems to be just enough.  Below are a few options for if you want to buy a coloring book.  This first one has about 32 pages and is only $7.00.  The other has about 50 pages and is around $6.00.  


6. Pick a Christmas movie

We are doing this three times this year.  Yep three girls my life revolves around three!  Plus, that's three nights that I'm not having to come up with a different activity that doesn't cost a lot.  So I have three separate nights that we will watch a Christmas movie, in addition to our normal Friday movie nights, and each girl gets a turn to pick the movie.  Simple. Fun. & Affordable! 

7. Pick a Christmas book

Just like the Christmas movie, I have three days that we will read Christmas books for our Advent activity.  And yep, each girl will get their own day to pick out the Christmas book.

8. Christmas program

This one is the best!  Need a filler?  Put your child's Christmas program on the Activity list!  It makes it even more special, and it's one less day/night you have to plan!

9. Go see Christmas lights

We enjoy going to a local town and seeing all their Christmas lights.  We've gone to different towns throughout the years and we've found our favorite.  We don't go to a big city and spend money to see the big lights.  It works just fine to go and look at local houses and how they decorate.  This is something both my husband and I grew up doing and we enjoy getting to look at lights with our girls now too.  Make it even more special pop some of that homemade popcorn listed above and make some homemade hot coco to take along.

10. Drink hot coco

Make some delicious hot coco and just enjoy being together.  Make it even more special, drink it by the tree with all the lights off!  

This year I had to improvise a little as our schedules have got fuller.  But, I'm enjoying the more simplified Advent activities along with having repeated ones too. I hope that this helps you this Christmas season and remember the true reason is Jesus and that's what we reflect on.  With that we have one more thing we do each year.  We try and read the Nativity story before bed each night.  There are many options on Pinterest you can find, the following is the one we have been using this year: Advent Bible Reading 

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Thursday, February 28, 2019

Mason jar soap dispenser how-to

So a couple weeks ago I posted on my Facebook page the image of my finished mason jar soap dispensers.  This is something that I wanted to make for a long time, but never had the right power tools to do so.  Finally, I decided that I was going to use what I had and make one as best as I could.  You might seen something like this going around on Pinterest and have thought I'd like to do that, but don't have the power tools I'd need.  Well, I'm here to show you, while it does take some time, you can still make it! But really plan to work for a little bit.  Find the movie you can watch without watching, the one you've seen 100's of times, pop it in and start making your soap dispenser! 

First of all supplies.  If you look this up online, most sites will say you need a drill with a large drill bit.  While I have access to a drill, we don't have a large enough drill bit.  So, I will be showing you how to make it using just a simple hammer and nail, along with some other supplies. 


nail (different sizes) 

or a large screw
board to nail on
Mason jar
Mason jar lid and ring
soap pump*
*for this, I just used an old lotion pump after the lotion was gone.  They are easy to cut to the size you need. 

Step 1: 

Gather your supplies (I wouldn't recommend using your cutting board to nail on as the nail will make a hole in your board....I don't speak from experience :) ) 

Step 2: 

Place nail in as centered as possible and starting hammering a hole into the lid.  

Step 3: 

Hammer a circle around the first hole.

Step 4: 

Here you have a couple options. I took a screw and then just hammered it a little. ( I used an old screw that I didn't care if I stripped it & I only hammered it enough to start twisting it).
Or, you could use a nail that's a little bigger and nail it in the holes. 

This is what it looks like after you work and work making each hole a little bigger.  They eventually start to overlap and make a bigger space.  This is also where your pilers come into play.  As you make the hole larger, you can start to break some of the spaces with pilers too and pull the metal back carefully.  If you don't have a hole, the metal will just rip wherever. Having the holes there to guide it helps.  

Step 5: 

This is a good time to get out the dispenser you want to use and measure.  This way you know how much larger you need to make the hole.  For this one I was almost there.  I didn't need to make it much larger to start getting the first part of the pump dispenser in.  

HOWEVER, when you look at your dispenser the topper part is even a little wider.  Now, maybe you're asking why didn't you just make that size to start.  I'm not great at getting the right circle size, so I like to start small and get the first part through then see how much wider to go.  BUT, more power to you if you can figure out the exact size right away.  I also am not looking for this to be perfectly centered...that way I have room for edits if need be. 

Step 6: 

Keep making holes a little larger than the hole you have, use your pilers to pull the metal in places as you slowly make the holes bigger.  Remember I said this takes time, but once you get to this stage it starts to go faster. 

Step 7: 

Make sure the dispenser can fit through, if you have some gaps it's ok, you can fill them in with hot glue.
These are two different ones I made, the one on the left has some extra gaps, but it still worked in the end, I just added extra hot glue. 


Step 8: 

Hot glue the dispenser to the lid.  I do this in three parts. First I hot glue the rim of the dispenser to the top of the lid.  (This step is okay if you miss, I did it for one, but not my other jar.  It helps for those that are a little loose). 

Step 8: part 2 

Secondly, I turn the lid and dispenser over and hot glue the inside, making sure to cover up as much holes as possible.  I usually go over it a few times here just to make sure it's completely covered. 

Step 8: part 3 

Thirdly, I glue a small amount around the rim on the outside, just to make sure everything is secure. The less holes, the less likely it will rust.


Step 9: 

Cutting off the extra.  Now, take your dispenser you made, and by the way way to go! This takes a while without power tools and it's so exciting when you've accomplished it!  Also, no worries if it didn't work, take some time walk away and try again another day.  All you're out is mason jar lid...the rest you can salvage. 
Anyways, now take your all done, made by yourself soap dispenser and stick it in your jar, measure or guess and cut approximately until you get the length you desire.  Don't worry, if it sticks up a little, it helps the soap go through, plus how many times do you let the soap get ALL THE WAY to the bottom? Ok maybe many, but this way you're fill it up sooner :) 


And voila you're done!! 

Saturday, November 24, 2018

Laziness or Too Busy?

So before you read this post, I have to tell you something interesting.  I wrote this post last week and then decided to sit on it a bit.  I wanted to read it again before I posted it with a fresh set of eyes.  Flash forward to the following Sunday and our Pastor does a sermon on laziness.  Coincidence, well I think its more God is working on me and maybe you reading this too.  His sermon tied laziness into our spiritual lives,  family, marriage and just everyday...not specifically work related.  After you read my post, you'll see how it ties in even more to that.  He talked about how we may be super hard working when it comes to our jobs, but still be lazy in our marriage or with our time with God. Anyways, I just had to share, because I feel that was more than just something that happens.  So I challenge you to really think about when you are choosing not to do something, is it because you are too busy, or are you being lazy?

Saving money isn't easy.  Saving money takes work.  It takes energy and time.  Both aren't always easy to have and can seem limited most days.

This post was inspired by a magnet that has been sitting on my island for a couple weeks.  A simple magnet.  It broke one day and at the time I knew it could be fixed.  But, the longer it sat on my counter the harder it was to find time and energy to fix it.  The longer it sat on my counter, made the simple fixing it seem much more complicated.

How often does this happen when we are trying to save money.  Oh I was going to make a home cooked meal tonight, but going through drive-thru was much faster and easier.  I wish I could cut our water bill down, but I don't have time to hand wash the dishes.  Don't get me wrong, I definitely have been there.  There are many times I find I throw stuff or food away because I just am too busy to fix it or save it somehow for something else.  And then that "too busy mentality" does turn into being lazy, because the said item sits forever and then when I do have time I've mentally made myself think it's going to take way longer.  I mean it must, because if it didn't then I just would have done it in the first place right?  So it must be something that's going to take a lot of time and energy so then I just become lazy and throw it away.  Yep, even that magnet (that was a gift), had me thinking about throwing it away.  Because that would be the easy way out.  Then it's out of my sight and it's been handled.  But really, instead of solving the problem, I just got rid of it.  And I've found that I do this more often now, but am I lazy or am I just too busy?

There have been times where I think to myself, "Man, I'm so much more lazy than my parents were". While, I'm sure there's some truth to that because I do feel each generation gets a little lazier.  I also feel we are just becoming more busy than the generation before us.  I mean how many of you feel that some days all you do is drive?  Drive from one place to the other, for one activity to the next?  We are just starting to get into that stage of life as our oldest has started dance after school once a week.  Just that one thing that's once a week, has already made us crazy busy.  And it's only one more thing added.  But when you factor in, grocery shopping, cleaning house, making supper, teaching my littles, picking up oldest from school,  2 days at an after school program, 1 night of dance...the list could go on more, but you can see how just one more thing adds up.

I feel our generation, or just generations in general lately are just adding that one more thing and then wondering why we are spending so much on food, or things.

So while I don't have an exact answer, I think that it can be a combo of both.  Today I sat down and glued that magnet back together.  And you know what, it took me a total of 2 min.  I'm not even joking, it was nothing out of my day to do.  So in that sense, I'd say it came down to being lazy.  When it first broke, if I would have just fixed it right away it'd have been done.  But I didn't, I was lazy.

Other things might be because I'm crazy busy.  But, what I've found helps me is scheduling.  Being organized is a huge help when saving money.  Organized in your kitchen so you know what you have on hand and what you need to get for your menu that week or month.  Organized in cleaning so you know if you missed cleaning the bathroom last week or not.  Organized in your day, because if you have your day mapped out then you know when you have time to fix the little things, or to play with your kids or read?  But not doing theses things is when I'm being lazy.  I know that doing these small tasks will help me in the long run and will help my day go smoother.  This is where saving money takes time and energy.  It takes time to write out that grocery list after taking time to look through your pantry and taking time to plan a menu.  It takes time and energy to keep your house clean, but it's something you do.  So why not take some time and energy to plan ways to save money.

I feel this post doesn't have an exact answer, but it definitely is something I've been contemplating.  If anything, now each time I want to take the easy way out I can stop and think, could I have put a little more energy into this, or can I just take time to fix said item now?

Thursday, August 30, 2018

School year has started!  While I don't homeschool, I do some preschool teaching to my kiddos before they go to school.  (You can see some of my other preschool posts at the bottom of the page.)   With that, we use a lot of construction paper.  When I first started planning and making our projects to do, I realized how much construction paper we were going through, especially when there was a free day of crafting.  So I slowly learned some ways to save on that construction paper.

Have you ever seen a kid cut something out of a piece of construction paper?  They always cut right in the middle leaving a lot of extra paper left over.  This was such a waste to me and I wanted to do something to make sure we could use the construction paper to its full potential.  

One of the ways I've done this is by starting a scrap paper bag, any of the paper scraps that are left over from a craft we put in a designated ziplock bag.  This way we have scraps for them to use for other crafts.  This bag is my go to for when I need to cut out small little eyes, tails, or spots for our letter crafts.  

Another way we use this scrap paper bag is for gluing and cutting small pieces. When the girls were learning to cut I would give them the paper from the scrap paper bag and they could practice cutting it up.  Also, when Peanut was going through a gluing phase she would take the pieces she cut and glue them to another piece of paper.  This saved so much paper, because all she wanted to do was glue over and over and this paper was just paper that was extra. 

A second way I saved on construction paper was by giving them less.  That construction paper is so large and as I said before kids don't do the best at cutting on the edge.  So instead of letting them have the whole paper, I would first cut the paper in half.  This worked great for when my oldest was going through a book phase.  She loved taking books and then making them using construction paper.  She took Brown Bear Brown Bear for instance and then figured out what color each page would be, brown for the bear, red for the bird, yellow for the duck, etc.  I loved how she was learning to put things in order, recognize what color would be represented on each page and so forth, but one full-sized construction paper for a circle to represent the bear just seemed like a waste.  So we cut the paper in half, it made it the perfect size for a book and she could be creative and re-make the books while I could be content that we weren't using to much paper.  Some books we been cut the construction paper into fourths...make it go even further!  


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